> I have to admit that I am a pretty traditional person-
> I don't dig random hookups and would rather get
> down with someone I'm "dating". How in God's
> name, however, am I supposed to meet guys on
> this campus? I don't want to meet them at parties
> and the guys in my classes are tools. And why
> aren't guys more forward here (when sober)? I
> don't get it. If anyone has any insight into how to,
> ahem, get my needs fulfilled, post a note.
>
> Thanks, sophchick!
are you cute? if so, let's talk.
Seriously, though, I feel your frustration as a guy who is unafiliated. To me, however, it seems like so many girls want frat guys who can take them to their houses and make them feel like Queen of the Basement as they down cups of beast together.
Honestly, I don't know what the solution is. I'm not shy but our setting ties my hands. All I can really do is ask a girl to meet for lunch sometime or dinner at Mai Thai or something like that. It's not that exciting and then all the parties are at frats so if they want to party they're better off with a frat boy.
So you're not the only one frustrated by the dating scene at Dartmouth. But it's not all the guys' faults. The problem is with both sexes and the culture of our school. |
