> > I have to admit that I am a pretty traditional person-
>
> > I don't dig random hookups and would rather get
> > down with someone I'm "dating". How in God's
>
> > name, however, am I supposed to meet guys on
> > this campus? I don't want to meet them at parties
> > and the guys in my classes are tools. And why
> > aren't guys more forward here (when sober)? I
> > don't get it. If anyone has any insight into how to,
> > ahem, get my needs fulfilled, post a note.
> >
> > Thanks, sophchick!
>
> are you cute? if so, let's talk.
>
> Seriously, though, I feel your frustration as a guy who is
> unafiliated. To me, however, it seems like so many girls
> want frat guys who can take them to their houses and make
> them feel like Queen of the Basement as they down cups of
> beast together.
>
> Honestly, I don't know what the solution is. I'm not shy
> but our setting ties my hands. All I can really do is ask a
> girl to meet for lunch sometime or dinner at Mai Thai or
> something like that. It's not that exciting and then all
> the parties are at frats so if they want to party they're
> better off with a frat boy.
>
> So you're not the only one frustrated by the dating scene
> at Dartmouth. But it's not all the guys' faults. The
> problem is with both sexes and the culture of our school. |
